Leave or stay - that's the question

Probably, the most difficult decisions for me are to decide to part with a person. It's hard for me to hurt people. Much easier when you have mutual feelings and you both want to separate. 

The first step is to realize that this person has already fulfilled his role in your life. As a rule, in this case, this person begins to annoy you with all his existence, the way he/she speaks, his/her manners, jokes, a way to express his/her thoughts, movements and presence in general. Although at this stage it is still possible to turn in a different direction. It's enough to talk to a person about this situation, to clarify everything, and maybe you will understand again that the role of a person in your life is not over yet. 

The second step - you're trying any way to avoid contact with this person, thinking about how well it would be without him/her. Then the breakup is inevitable. 

The third step is to find the words. It is desirable to make everything so that you dispersed peacefully. Of course the right arguments, at least some. And you need to be confident. It is possible that everything will go to warps, in this case, stay calm and insist on your own, if you really want it. 

It is very important to realize that you want to end the relationship in a person, especially if they are toxic. If everything is really so, when you release a person, you will feel an unprecedented relief and will be ready to continue your life without unnecessary "load".